Life Imitating Art

Can life truly imitate art?
O to be beautiful!
Like the lusciousness of a summer's breeze.
The enviable statuesque of the trees,
The gentle calm of the green blades of grass, 
Or the coolness and enticement of the glistening ripples of the water on a hot day.
Have you ever beheld such beauty?
That not even a picture could capture its breathtaking scenery.
O to drink it all in!
And let it fill every square inch of me till I am no more,
And beauty encompasses every fiber of my very being.
To dream in color,
And live it out loud every single day.
How I wish to be the beauty I see all around me!
Why is it everything is beautiful to me except me?
I want to be a woman my daughter might hope to be.
When will this war of what I see and who I am come to an end?
So I might feel alive again.
Wave of beauty overtake me now!
Till I burst in my soul as its vanity goes on the prowl.
For once in my life I wish to be the art.
A perfect picture of wonderful design,
I want to see the beauty that I always dreamed of seeing in the mirror looking back at me.
Not just looking out this window endlessly.
Why can't I be as majestic as the magnolia?
Or as chic as the daisy?
Maybe as sultry as the red rose,
Or as alluring as the tiger lily?
As soothing as the lilac,
Or as sophisticated as the tulip.
Maybe as gorgeous as the orchid,
Or even as cute as the daffodil.
For now I will stick with being plain me.
But I will never stop asking God to make me as beautiful as one of these.
Is it really so wrong to wish for this kind of superficial beauty?
Maybe it is...but it doesn't stop me from dreaming.
One day I will wake up and my life will imitate this wonderful art.
One day.....

...just some feelings I was having today. I have to admit it, I spend a lot of time reading the news, reading about celebrities...all that jazz. After a while I get so disillusioned that their life is the "real" life and that is how it should be. No one looking at this picture says, "Oh, that garden is so ugly!" So, why do we find so many ugly qualities about other people and ourselves? Aren't we worth so much more than the flowers and the trees??? Jesus said we were worth more than even the wildflowers (Luke 22-28)  It's hard not to get down on myself. Most of the time I just wish I could be someone else...someone prettier with better hair, lighter skin, BETTER skin...ah. The scars that we try to hide from each other. But isn't that what makes us unique. Like those flowers, we all possess some quality no one else does that is completely our own. When you look at children, you always see the beauty in them. Where does that fade to as we grow older? Through bullying, emotional or verbal abuse, trying to live up to unrealistic expectations, and for me, having an insane need to be perfect. This will be a battle I will have to face daily. But at least I can admit I have one to fight. Let's help each other. Find all the beautiful qualities in people and celebrate them. Maybe this world wouldn't be so bad after all. And maybe more little girls and little boys can grow up with a confidence and self-esteem that will help them not to compromise who they are to fit in or be a model of what the world considers "beautiful."

RaInDrOps on my heart

                                      "After the Rain"- Aaron Jeoffrey

                             {This was the only video I could find of this song...just listen to the words!!)

I cover my heart/ turn from the wind/ button my coat/ here comes the storm again/ what can I do but trust in Him
'Cause I know the deeper my faith runs/ the stronger I become/ and the thunder it may shake me/ but I always know that

After the rain/ you can look to the sky again/ the clouds will give way/ to the light of the sun/ after the rain/ you know that you've made it through/ and you'll finally see the joy from the pain/ after the rain

Everyone needs/ everyone hurts/ everyone feels/ the weight of the world sometimes/ but don't let the wind sweep your heart away
'Cause even the roughtest waters cleanse/ so when they come again/ let them serve as a reminder/ you can always know that

After the rain/ you can look to the sky again/ the clouds will give way/ to the light of the sun/ after the rain/ you know that you've made it through/ and you'll finally see the joy from the pain/ after the rain

Can't you see the hand of Jesus/ reaching out for you/ you never have to face the storm alone
{chorus}


Nostalgia. always takes you back to another time and place, sometimes a feeling, even a smell can trigger the most vivid memories we lock deep down inside.

Wow! I cannot believe that song came to my mind the other night! It has been too long since I heard it. Such memories that flooded my mind as I began to listen to the words all over again. I listened to this song during a very painful and confusing time in my life. I wasn't who I wanted to be...wasn't where I thought I would be...I let people down...I lost my first love...I had been crushed by betrayal of relationships and slandered...people just walking away from me...my heart was in a million pieces and I had no way of knowing how to put them back together again.

So many things happen in our lives are unbearable and explainable; hard to chew and swallow. Well, life won't stop or slow down for us to figure out all these things. It (life) must keep going and so must we. Somehow we have to find the strength and perserverance to make it through. For some, it's in another relationship, a hobby, getting lost in a drink or a high. For others, it may be finding a way out...any way. I myself after this period tried to find a way out...sitting on a railroad waiting for the train to come. Lowest point of my life. And sadly, many don't even know what that pain led me to...attempted suicide. My life has been filled with confusion, with loss, with pure pain. But God's AMAZING grace held my quivering hand and pulled me up time and time again. I was clinging but I was still there.JESUS saved me and He is the only one who can put broken things back together...not like the things we fix with glue or tape...things that will eventually break again. He mends it and remakes it as NEW. WE have a new life!  (Col. 3) Not that I will ever forget what happened to me but I will remember and be thankful that God was able to heal something I thought was unmendable and that would eventually kill me. 
 He is showing me the beauty that surrounds me everyday....and it is BEAUTYful. My Jesus, my life, my husband, my beautiful and sweet baby, being a wife, a mommy, being surrounded by new friends, a new job...making lifetime memories.
LEAVE it...There's a reason your past is the past!
ACCEPT it...You are in a new season in life
EMBRACE it...Be thankful where God has you and all He has graciously given
EXPECT it...There is a purpose for your life if you are willing to truly surrender your heart and life to Him
ENJOY it...You only have one life. make it count. there is a lost world out there waiting to receive the life that you have.


This is just another firefly to stick in the jar.

I love you..I love my Jesus. I love my family. Hold on just a little bit longer. It will be alright.

Love,

tiiara

ReCkLeSs LoVe!!!

This post is taken from a study I am currently doing through my SWING group while at seminary. We are studying Ephesians, and this particular chapter (5) is about submission. I have truly been blessed to learn and grow in this area of love. thanks to Kristi Hart. I have reworded most in my own words. Enjoy.

1. God is a God of order, not chaos (I Corinthians 14:33)
2. Wives are to submit to their "OWN" husband
3. Likewise, husbands are to love their "OWN" wives as Christ loved the church
    - He died for us!
    -Sacrificial love
4. We must be subject to each other in the fear of the Lord

We must first learn to submit to God before we can begin to try to submit to our husbands. This takes intentional time of prayer and Bible study. This is the constant, clear communication that is needed to make any relationship grow and thrive. It is only done through PRAYER!
Likewise, with our husbands, we need constant conversation and growth. We get this through mutual trust and a growing love for our husbands.

Submission is NOT slavery. It is a relational posture. It is 'coming under' your husband in order to lift him up in everything he does and help him become the man he is supposed to be.

Feminisim has thwarted our idea of submission into thinking we are to 'buck' the system of control. This has nothing to do with control. It has everything to do with honor and respect and the fact that you agreed to let God place this man into your life as not only a leader in your home but a spiritual leader. How important is that role? Not only must he provide and protect, he must also guide us spiritually and be a godly example before us. Wow. That is a huge responsibility. Let's give him a break.  We can only submit through the power of the Holy Spirit.

Without Christ we are all prone to selfish independence.

We are to have an 'affectionate' love towards the men in our life. For him and him ONLY! Ladies, especially do little things in public for your guy. They will truly love this. :) An area I am not so comfortable in but am willing to give it a try!

We as women also have a dark and fleshly desire to manipulate men. (Gen. 3;16) and look at the Proverbs too!
:how we act towards them ( flirtatious behavior, emotional attachments)
:how we appear
:how we dress or what we wear (to seek their attention or elicit a reaction)
                                                W R O N G ! ! !
Shame on us! Then we blame them for being pigs! Men have to be men just as we have to be who God created us to be. We need to help them just as much as they have to help themselves. So if you have been seeking the attentions of men, other than your husband or significant other, I suggest you ask forgiveness and seek to honor YOURS and God. We don't need anyone else to validate who we are (we are made in His image)- let's reflect that not just on the outside, especially on the inside.

With that said, we come to the word 'hesed' which is a Hebrew word for love. This word is much deeper than we can explain or try to translate. Some would translate it as "lovingkindness," or "faithfulness," or "devotion."

Actually, it is an "absolutely selfless love."
                                                                    - it is driven not by force or duty or legal obligation but by a deep commitment-

                                                  "it is a selfless love that motivates a person to do volunarily what no one has a right to expect or ask of them. They have the freedom to act or walk away without the slightest injury to their reputation.Yet they willingly pour themselves out for the good of someone else." THIS IS MOST EXPRESSED IN JESUS.

 this is why we must study the scriptures. to become more like Him.

THIS IS THE GOSPEL LIVED OUT! - this is how our love as husband and wife should look. Sacrificial, serving, selfless, and without condition or demands.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rwK73QbNPKo

Now this is the part where I must publicly announce my sincerest apologies to my dearest friend and my faithful and loyal partner, Levi. You are an amazing husband and more so an amazing man of God who is faithfully devoted to the Lord and daily studying His word. I, however, have not been the faithful partner you have needed. I have not loved you the way I should have; affectionately. In fact, many times I have pushed you away from selfishness or meaness. I am sorry. Forgive me. I am learning how to be that wife you need and how to be the support and encouragement you have to have in order to be who you need to be. I hope I can change this around from this day on and really give you my trust and my heart. You are the best thing that has happened in my life so far (besides Jesus of course :p) and though we have had an incredibley rough journey here, I know we will give God all the glory through our lives! I couldn't have asked for a better soulmate. I couldn't have dreamed for anything more.  I love you!!! Thanks for all your love. Especially for seeing the worst in me and loving me anyway. :)
Tiiara

Beauty Has a Name

Beauty has a name
She has a face
No one can hide her
From taking her place
In this world she'll grow
Up to be mighty and strong
She'll learn how to fly
And soar in the unknown
She holds a quiet peace
A joy from deep within
She is a crowned jewel
A delight to her King
He knows and loves her
He delights in this creature He sees
She doesnt have it all
And doesnt ask for much
She gives what she can and knows 
That what she has is enough
She is sweet and strong
Oh how she inspires me
This beauty walks with grace
And her name is Didi

This is for Diana. A precious young lady I am able to know. It is so inspiring to see how a girl at her age is so strong and has such integrity to face life's challenges and keep going. Her faith is amazing and she is my friend. To all those who find it hard to fit in...you always fit perfectly in the palm of His hands!

Bless the Lord

~a song I made up after a great study time with God. Hopefully, I can use parts of it one day and actually put it to music. Enjoy!


From the rising of the sun
To the going down of the same
Your mercy is new each morning
Every single day
So I will lift my hands up
And I will sing praise to You
Until I see You face to face
I will bless Your name

I will bless the Lord
Bless the Lord
Bless the Lord
O, my sould
My sould will bless You Lord

From the rising of the sun
To the going down of the same
I am weak today
But I know Your grace will save
Me from myself
I cling to you and nothing else
Thank You for Your love
And I pray it will be enough

Why do You love me
The way that You do
Who am I that I should have
As good of a friend as You

You are greater
You are stronger
You are mightier than a million others
You are holy
You are worthy
You are the Great I am
You are the El Shadai
The Sacrificial Lamb


You died for me
You set me free
To took hell and the grave
Now You live
Victoriously
And I will bless Your name

some of our family portrait!

The New Look: Righteousness

While everyone is out searching for this season's latest trend or hottest item, I am on a different shopping mission: I'm searching for a different and new type of wardrobe. That of faithfulness, holiness, righteousness, purity, truth, love, joy, peace, patience, self-control, loving-kindness, gentleness, and long-suffering. When I step out, I want everyone to notice what and who I am wearing: Jesus. Is it hard? Yeah. Just think whenever you are trying to find that pair of jeans, or those pair of shoes you saw in that one magazine (well, maybe a similar pair because you can't afford designer shoes), or that coat that would match perfectly with those winter boots. It can take a long time to find just the right pair or exactly what you are looking for. You have to try things on...maybe even take some items back. Well, the same goes for transformation. It is a process. You won't get it right away, and you won't have it when you leave this world. Living here in Dallas, I've seen so many sides of the American dream. Those who desperately want to get out of the ghetto but can't, those who don't even have a ghetto to call home but a bench or a bridge, those who work hard to acheive that corporate status, and those who have money to burn and the need to be seen. People are appearance-obssessed it seems. And I almost fell into that trap myself. To have the coolest car, the prettiest house, the vacation spot, name-brand designer clothes, and making all the fashionable appearances seem to shape and mold the world we live in, even in the Christian community. It's sad no one can tell us apart from the world anymore. We are takers instead of givers. We want what we can't have and refuse to be satisfied with what we do. We can buy all the fancy clothes, pile on all the ridiculous makeup, make ourselves look like something we aren't, color our hair, get tattoos and piercings, mold and sculpt our bodies all to be noticed by others. Man, I thought we were to live in the world, not act like it. We are 'new creations' so why do we still act like Jesus died for nothing? I wish I would want to be noticed for an entirely different reason: to glorify God. Not just with my body, but with my time, my money, my life, my family;everything.  Let's not try to pretend anymore. We (I) need to stop being fake and become real and transparent because that is the only way I will be able to be transformed. I need to stop lying to myself and realize I have a long way to go but if I simply go to God humbly and with all sincerity, I KNOW He will change me and work in me to become all those things I desire to be. Not for my own benefit but to be obedient to my Heavenly Father. I don't want to judge others. I don't want to waste my time with their actions against me or what they do in spite of claiming to be a Christian. I want to focus on those who want and need a Savior. Those who are struggling, hurting, and lost. Lord help me be pure in heart, sober in mind to refuse all these worldly lusts and temptations in order to become a light in the midst of a dark and scary world. Let me be raw and genuine before You, carrying no deceit or shame. No, I won't be rockin' the Dior or the Dolce & Gabbana's but I will be rockin' something so much better: I'll be rockin' JC. Then I don't think I'll be able to look any better!


Read: Ephesians 4:17-24; Zecheriah 8;!6,17; Philippians 4:8; 2 Corinthians 5:17-19